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Tuesday, 27 November 2007

  • Friendship/Forgiveness

    Friendship/Forgiveness

    Thursday, November 22, 2007

    Current mood: thoughtful

    Its been quite a while since I have posted up a blog of mine to the public here online.  These past couple weeks I have been thinking about a certain subject: Friendships and Forgiveness. 

    True friendship is definitely a true treasure that many people seek and its hard to come upon.  Its just that many of us take the friendships for granted and there are many things that will pop up along the way that can separate intimate friends.

    Little things can separate people such as grudges or even a slight bit of gossip can add up and eventually grow and build up into complete resentment that can cause two close friends to even become adversaries.

    Its just that a lot of times we never get to overlook an offense and it just continues stacking up on our scale of resentment towards the other person.  Forgiveness will actually bring two people into a closer bond, holding up a grudge and building up that resentment will do the complete opposite.

    We just gotta be real with each other and immediately point out anything that we feel is offensive to us and let the other know our feelings instead of holding it on the inside.

    These are things I have seen happen that has either separated people or brought them a lot closer and I myself have experienced this before in the past quite a few times.

    Its just that many of us have that pride and ego that we refuse to drop and don't want to be in "humility" and forgive or say sorry.

    Friendship is definitely a God given treasure that we need to cherish and the love He has gave to us through this is more than you can ever imagine.

    As most of you know, I am a firm believer of the Word of God from The Bible and truly believe that all that comes out of it is TRUTH.

    Here are three Bible Scripture verses that I found which touch up on Friendships & Forgiveness:


    Proverbs 17:9

    "You will keep your friends
    if you forgive them,
    but you will lose your friends
    if you keep talking about
    what they did wrong."

    Proverbs 16:28
    "A troublemaker plants seeds of strife;
    gossip separates the best of friends."

    Colossians 3:12-14

    "Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity."

    © 2007  Roger Ma

Friday, 27 April 2007

  • It isn't what you have, or who you are.....

    It isn't what you have, or who you are......
    Category: Life

    04/27/07

     

    "It isn't what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or what you are doing that makes you happy or unhappy. It is what you think about."
    -Dale Carnegie

     

    Instead of just posting up my typical Optimistic Quote of The Day, I thought I'd reflect on this one today......

    Now this is one powerful quote that I truly agree on.  The thoughts you have running through your head control your emotional state of mind.  It all depends on your attitude towards the certain situation, problem, challenge, etc.  What I've learned throughout the years is that people should count their blessings and look at what they do have, instead of what they don't have.  When you look at the world, there are literally billions of people out there without a car, decent home, nutritional meals, you name it.  If you are going to complain on these subjects, just know ya'll are very grateful to have it, compared with a huge part of the world that doesn't. 

     

    Gotta praise the Lord each and every minute of your life, as all of us are very grateful to live in the U.S. or other fully-developed western countries where we have got it so good and don't realize or take a second to see how people are suffering in poverty stricken places.  People have started to take too many things for granted and aren't appreciative of what they have been given.

     

    Next time you get mad over not getting a good tasting plate from a restaurant or complain about the size of your house, just think about someone out there who doesn't have it at all…

     

    © 2007  Roger Ma

Tuesday, 23 January 2007

  • Because of You

    Because of You

    Jan. 23, 2007

    Sitting here contemplating on life...

    Wondering  if the  direction I am going is right...

    With all the frustration and obstacles...

    I keep turning back and going in circles...

    I continue falling, losing focus...

    Having strong thoughts, feeling hopeless...

    Confused, I sit empty minded not knowing where to go...

    Your promises come back to mind and peacefulness starts to flow...

    Giving my problems and putting trust in You I begin hearing Your message...

    Turning my attention back with full focus, I can still see progress...  

    Only because of You I see the purpose and plans in this life I will harvest...

    © 2007  Roger Ma

Friday, 17 November 2006

  • LIFE

    Friday, November 17, 2006


    LIFE

    Life is a progression...

    some live it day by day

    others see it as a mission...

    many choices are made

    encountering trials and tribulations...

    we all make mistakes

    because we are just humans...

    some continue the same mistakes

    some become wise and lose patience....

    thats just the test of life

    as we find purpose in this existance...

    you can live day by day

    or go on with the mission....

    you can sit around unfocused

    or achieve big with determination...


    © 2006  Roger Ma

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